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The Art of Social Labeling
An exploration into the playful, peculiar, and powerful ways we categorize each other in the modern world.
Human beings possess an inherent drive to categorize. By defining what we are not, we solidify our own social identity.
This taxonomy isn’t about hate; it’s about the subtle, often amusing, ways we create in-groups and out-groups. These informal labels, from “nerd” to “normie,” function as a soft form of social policing, reinforcing our shared values by highlighting what deviates from them. It’s a collective, and sometimes comical, effort to make sense of a complex social world.
The Digital Arena
The internet has forged a new frontier for social identity, giving rise to distinct archetypes defined by their online behaviors. These groups reflect our collective anxieties about information, authenticity, and interaction in the digital age.
Profile of Online Archetypes
This chart compares the defining traits of four prominent online personas. Note the high “Rejection of Consensus” for the ‘Researcher’ versus the peak “Conformity” of the ‘Normie’, and the stark contrast between the ‘Troll’s’ active provocation and the ‘NPC’s’ perceived passivity.
Beyond the Mainstream
Groups formed around niche interests and subcultures are often misunderstood. The labels they attract are frequently a reaction to their social presentation rather than the passion itself, revealing a tension between intellectual intensity and social conformity.
Anatomy of Subcultural Labels
This visualization breaks down the perceived reasons behind common subcultural labels. While “Niche Interest” is a factor for all, notice how “Social Awkwardness” is a major component for ‘Nerds’, while “Perceived Lower Class” heavily defines the ‘Pleb’ label, and ‘Stans’ are characterized by their “Excessive Enthusiasm.”
The Anatomy of Annoyance
Sometimes, it’s not what you like, but how you act. Certain behavioral patterns, whether manipulative or merely immature, become targets of mild critique, revealing the unspoken rules of social interaction.
The Concern Troll
This individual uses a facade of sympathy to deliver judgmental or shaming messages. Their “concern” is a manipulative tool to enforce social norms, often targeting lifestyle choices under the guise of care, but stemming from prejudice.
The “Bratty” Archetype
Exhibiting a playful, mischievous, and sometimes demanding attitude, this persona’s charm is highly subjective. What one person finds endearing, another finds immature, highlighting the fluid boundary of acceptable social behavior.
The Label Lifecycle
Labels are not permanent. They are born from stereotypes, evolve with culture, and can be reclaimed by the very groups they once targeted. This process reveals the ever-shifting landscape of social perception.
A Playful Taxonomy of Perceived “Deplorable” Groups in Modern Culture
I. Introduction: The Art of Social Labeling
The contemporary social landscape is rife with informal classifications, where individuals and groups are subtly, and sometimes not so subtly, assigned labels that carry a degree of mild disdain or amusement. This exploration aims to construct a “collective taxonomy” of such groups, focusing on the nuanced ways in which certain behaviors, interests, or social affiliations can lead to informal, often lighthearted, negative labeling, steering clear of overtly offensive or politically charged terms. The objective is to understand the underlying mechanisms of social perception that give rise to these classifications.
The concept of “deplorable” in this context aligns closely with the sociological understanding of “informal labels.” These are designations applied by individuals or groups in everyday, non-official settings, such as within family units, among friends, or across communities.1 Examples of such informal labels can range from “troublemaker” to “outcast”.1 While these labels lack formal authority, their impact on how individuals or groups are perceived and interact within social spheres can be considerable. The application of such labels, even those conveying mild disdain, serves as a fundamental means of social differentiation. It allows groups to reinforce their internal norms and values by identifying behaviors or characteristics that deviate from the perceived standard. This process can function as a subtle form of social policing or simply as a way for people to articulate their discomfort with perceived “otherness.” It might also be a means to signal one’s own perceived superiority in taste, intelligence, or social grace. The desire for a “fun of collective taxonomy,” as expressed in the query, highlights the communal aspect of defining what is considered “not us” or “less than us” in a lighthearted manner. This dynamic suggests that even seemingly innocuous labels contribute to the ongoing construction of social hierarchies and identities, implicitly defining what is considered “normal” or “acceptable” by contrasting it with its perceived opposite.
Human beings possess an inherent drive to categorize, a cognitive process essential for making sense of the complex world around them. This “collective taxonomy” of social groups, even those viewed with mild disdain, extends beyond mere description; it functions as a powerful tool for individuals to establish and reinforce their own social identity and sense of belonging. By defining what they are not, individuals solidify their position within a social fabric. The effectiveness of these “colloquial labels,” as noted in cultural analysis, is rooted in a “shared verbal community”.2 This shared understanding is a cornerstone of social interaction. Furthermore, understanding a group’s specific slang or lexicon can significantly enhance feelings of belonging and similarity among group members.3 Conversely, a lack of familiarity with an in-group’s slang can signal a misunderstanding of its norms, effectively marking an individual as an outsider.3 When people engage in this “fun” taxonomy, they are implicitly reinforcing the boundaries of the “acceptable” or “non-deplorable” group. This acts as a subtle mechanism for social cohesion among those who share the understanding of these labels, while simultaneously creating a soft form of exclusion for those being labeled. The playful aspect of this exercise may, at times, obscure a deeper social dynamic where shared ridicule or mild disdain for an out-group strengthens the bonds within the in-group, serving as a collective affirmation of “We’re not like
them.”
In exploring these social classifications, maintaining a respectful and analytical stance is paramount. It is crucial to recognize that these labels are often rooted in misunderstanding, oversimplification, or conflicting perspectives, rather than inherent flaws of the individuals or groups themselves. The objective is to observe and analyze these phenomena, not to perpetuate harm or reinforce negative stereotypes. Cultural studies highlight that stereotypes are “positive or negative beliefs that we hold about the characteristics of social group”.4 Problems frequently arise from the human “tendency to categorize,” which can lead to various forms of bias, including prejudice (an emotional bias) and discrimination (a behavioral bias).5 For instance, the superficial portrayal of subcultures by mainstream media often results in them being “met with fear, condescension, and sometimes even hate due to misunderstandings”.6 While the intention behind creating a “fun” taxonomy might be benign, the very mechanism of labeling draws from the same cognitive processes that underpin more harmful forms of prejudice. The “fun” can inadvertently desensitize individuals to the underlying dehumanization or oversimplification that stereotypes represent. This exercise, therefore, serves as a subtle reminder of the profound power of language and categorization. Even seemingly benign labels can contribute to a societal environment where misunderstanding and superficial judgment are normalized, potentially paving the way for more severe forms of social exclusion if their underlying dynamics are not critically examined.
II. The Digital Denizens: Online Behaviors and Identities
The digital realm has given rise to a unique set of social groups, often defined by their online behaviors and the identities they project. These groups frequently become targets of mild derision or amusement, reflecting broader societal anxieties about information, authenticity, and social interaction in the internet age.
The “Researchers”: Those Who “Do Their Own Research” (and Miss the Point)
This group is characterized by a perceived over-reliance on self-selected, often unverified, information sources, leading to conclusions that contradict mainstream or expert consensus. They are frequently viewed as lacking critical thinking or being “out of touch with reality.” Individuals in this category are often referred to as “conspiracists” or “conspiracy theorists,” terms used to describe someone who “believes in or supports a conspiracy theory” and who “often reject the standard or accepted explanation” of events.7 These beliefs “invariably oppose the mainstream consensus” among qualified experts, such as scientists or historians.8 The informal phrase “people who do their own ‘research'” aligns with the casual meaning of being “out of touch with reality,” which denotes “stopping to know what is happening” in the external world due to “cognitive biases” or “intentionally not paying attention to the bigger realities of the world”.9 It is important to distinguish this casual usage from the medical definition of psychosis, which refers to a literal loss of touch with reality.10
The prevalence of unverified information online, particularly through blogs, YouTube videos, and social media, facilitates the formation of echo chambers.8 Individuals who claim to “do their own research” often seek out information that confirms their existing biases, leading to a reinforcing loop of misinformation. This self-validation, combined with a rejection of expert consensus, can be perceived as intellectual arrogance or a misguided sense of superior knowledge, which contributes to the application of the “deplorable” label. This phenomenon highlights a critical challenge in the digital age: the democratization of information has inadvertently enabled the proliferation of misinformation. This, in turn, creates social divisions where adherence to “alternative facts” becomes a defining, and often ridiculed, characteristic of a group.
The “Normies” and “Basics”: Mainstream Tastes as a Target
These labels are applied to individuals perceived as lacking originality or conforming excessively to popular, often commercially driven, trends and tastes. The critique typically targets a perceived absence of individual thought or depth. The term “basic” in American popular culture is used pejoratively to describe “culturally unoriginal people, particularly young women, who are perceived to prefer products, trends, and music that will make them look upper class even though they are not”.11 The phrase “basic bitch” originated in hip-hop culture, with a male counterpart often referred to as a “bro”.11 The criticism inherent in these terms often points to “shallow materialism” and the idea of “buying, rather than earning, their fashionability and social status”.11 Similarly, “normie” is a “derogatory word for someone with conventional tastes”.12 While liking mainstream products or music might be a symptom, the perception of being “basic” extends to a broader pattern of conformity across “too many other ways”.13
The application of “deplorable” labels to “Normies” or “Basics” is not merely about taste; it represents a subtle critique of perceived inauthenticity and a lack of critical engagement with consumer culture. It suggests that these individuals are passive recipients of trends rather than active, discerning participants. The “basic bitch” critique, in particular, often carries an implicit class judgment, implying an attempt to mimic upper-class status through consumption without genuine means.11 This dynamic highlights a societal tension between pervasive mass consumerism and the cultural desire for individual expression. These labels function as a low-stakes form of cultural gatekeeping, where those who adhere too closely to perceived “mainstream” or “unoriginal” consumption patterns are relegated to a “deplorable” category, thereby reinforcing a subcultural hierarchy based on perceived authenticity and discernment.
The “Trolls” and “Flamers”: Annoyance as a Social Currency
These groups engage in disruptive online behaviors, often with the explicit intent to provoke, annoy, or inflame others. Their perceived “deplorability” stems from the negative impact they have on online discourse and community cohesion. A “troll” is defined as a person who “posts deliberately offensive or provocative messages online… with the intent of provoking others into displaying emotional responses”.14 “Flaming,” a more aggressive act, involves “posting insults, often including profanity or other offensive language”.15 Both behaviors are often linked to the anonymity afforded by internet forums and the “online disinhibition effect”.15 Political discourse, for instance, has been described as resembling “the ramblings of basement-dwelling trolls,” characterized by “childish, callous and contemptible” behavior.16 Other slang terms for annoying people include “goad,” “bait,” “wind someone up,” “stirring the pot,” “poking the bear,” “get a rise out of him,” “push his buttons,” and “get someone’s goat”.17
The perceived safety of anonymity in online environments allows individuals to shed social inhibitions, leading to behaviors they would typically avoid in face-to-face interactions. This “weaponization” of anonymity transforms online spaces into arenas where civility is eroded, and provoking negative emotional responses becomes a form of “social currency,” measured in attention and reactions. The “deplorable” label applied to these individuals arises from the direct negative experience their behaviors inflict on others and the broader degradation of online communities. The rise of “trolling” and “flaming” as recognized social phenomena reflects a broader societal challenge in adapting norms of civil discourse to digital platforms. It underscores how technological affordances, such as anonymity, can amplify negative human tendencies, leading to a perceived class of individuals who actively undermine constructive interaction and foster a hostile online environment.
The “NPCs”: Lacking Independent Thought
This term, borrowed from video game terminology where “NPC” stands for “Non-Playable Character,” is used to describe individuals perceived as lacking critical thinking, agency, or independent thought, acting as if they are “pre-programmed” or simply following a script. An “NPC” is explicitly defined as a “person who lacks critical thinking, acting as if pre-programmed”.12 This concept aligns with the idea of individuals being “conditioned to ‘obey'” or failing to use their “initiative”.18 It also resonates with the casual sense of being “out of touch with reality” by “intentionally not paying attention to the bigger realities of the world”.9
The “NPC” label reflects a persistent societal anxiety about conformity, herd mentality, and the erosion of individual thought, particularly in an age of pervasive mass media and social influence. The informal critique conveyed by the “NPC” label is a strong one, targeting perceived intellectual passivity and unquestioning adherence to dominant narratives or trends. It often implies a lack of intelligence or moral courage in those who appear to simply follow the crowd without independent analysis. This term serves as a means for individuals to assert their own perceived intellectual independence and to distinguish themselves from what they view as the “unthinking masses,” thereby creating a new, subtle hierarchy based on perceived cognitive agency.
Table 1: A Glossary of Informal “Deplorable” Labels and Their Perceived Traits
Label/Group | Common Slang Terms | Perceived Traits Leading to Disdain/Amusement |
The “Researchers” | Conspiracist, Conspiracy Theorist, “Does their own ‘research'” | Rejection of mainstream consensus, reliance on unverified information, cognitive biases, perceived intellectual arrogance, “out of touch with reality” 7 |
The “Normies” / “Basics” | Basic, Basic Bitch, Bro, Normie, Airhead, Meathead, Dumbbell, Buffoon | Lack of originality, excessive conformity to popular trends, shallow materialism, perceived lack of individual thought or depth 11 |
The “Trolls” / “Flamers” | Troll, Flamer, Wind-up Merchant, Provocateur, Instigator | Deliberate provocation, posting insults, causing discord, erosion of civility, weaponization of anonymity, “childish, callous, and contemptible” behavior 14 |
The “NPCs” | NPC (Non-Playable Character) | Lacking critical thinking, appearing “pre-programmed,” absence of agency or independent thought, unquestioning adherence to narratives 9 |
The “Nerds” / “Geeks” | Nerd, Geek, Dork, Bookworm, Techie, Gym Rat, Cinephile, Shutterbug, Foodie, Fashionista | Intense, niche interests, perceived social awkwardness, unconventional appearance, “infodumping,” lack of social cues 19 |
The “Plebs” / “Outsiders” | Pleb, Chav, Bogan, Yobbo, Hick, Rube, Countryman, Peasant, Provincial, Village Idiot, Lowbrow, Yokel, Blighter, Contrarian, Simpleminded, Gullible, Simpleton, Dimwit, Dullard, Ignoramus, Dolt, Moron, Dunce, Nitwit, Lamebrain, Dummy, Dope, Jackass, Nincompoop, Bonehead, Twit, Halfwit, Knucklehead, Clot, Fathead, Dumbhead, Putz, Blockhead, Birdbrain, Ninny, Dunderhead, Nit, Prat, Donkey, Dipstick, Turkey, Wally, Airhead, Goon, Cretin, Loon, Numpty, Pinhead, Bozo, Goof, Berk, Chucklehead, Oaf, Dumbo, Thickhead, Clod, Noodle, Divvy, Schmuck, Jerk, Chowderhead, Clunk, Mug, Boob, Lamer, Noddy, Dingbat, Charlie, Dum-dum, Goofball, Muppet, Doofus, Dip, Git, Drongo, Sap, Clodpole, Knobhead, Galah, Lummox, Dumb-bell, Pea-brain, Galoot, Loggerhead, Cluck, Twerp, Simp, Muttonhead, Coot, Yo-yo, Goofus, Nyaff, Klutz, Spud, Mooncalf, Poop, Palooka, Wooden-head, Schlemiel, Wiener, Alec, Dill, Ding-dong, Nong, Dingleberry, Weeny, Gowk, Nerk, Sumph, Schlepper, Balloon, Boofhead, Tomfool, Mompara, Squarehead, Gink, Poon, Pudding-head, Meathead, Zombie, Spoony, Lump, Dumbbell, Buffoon, Numskull, Yahoo, Stupid, Wing Nut, Nimrod, Ninnyhammer, Dodo, Cuddy, Stupe, Saphead, Schlub, Mutt, Bubblehead, Clodpoll, Half-wit, Lunkhead, Deadhead, Woodenhead, Shlub, Dummkopf, Mome, Natural, Schnook, Ratbag, Golem, Cuddie, Hammerhead, Gander, Hardhead, Stock, Meatball, Know-nothing, Goat, Dim Bulb, Dweeb, Thicko, Eejit, Dorba, Plank, Prick, Gonzo, Booby, Twonk, Goose, Dumb Cluck, Ding-a-ling, Featherhead, Cuckoo, Charley, Lunatic, Duffer, Clown, Nut, Nutcase, Weenie, Mampara, Lightweight, Silly, Lame-brain, Illiterate, Silly Billy, Tosser, Brute, Foolish person, Dumb ox, Goop, Neanderthal, Lout, Bungler, Boor, Clodhopper, Kook, Lubber, Lug, Gawk, Hulk, Tit, Loser, Blunderer, Clodpate, Witling, Rascal, Butthead, Bore, Softhead, Pain in the backside, Pain in the rear, Pain in the neck, Pain in the bum, Innocent, Retardate, Milksop, Weakling, Muggins, Bimbo, Dotard, Weirdo, Wimp, Wuss, Goober, Freak, Rustic, Hillbilly, Dull person, Dag, Weed, Hayseed, Rube, Countryman, Cornball, Chawbacon, Peasant, Culchie, Bogman, Ocker, Provincial, Country cousin, Village idiot | Perceived lower social standing, lack of refinement, uncouth behavior, non-conformity to dominant social norms, perceived lack of common sense or initiative 3 |
The “Stans” / Fandoms | Stan, Fangirl, Fanboy, Otaku, Trekkie, Whovian, Actifan, Passifan, Trufan, BNF | Overly enthusiastic, obsessive devotion, perceived immaturity, “cringey” behavior, “uncritical devotion,” “infodumping” 19 |
The “Concern Trolls” | Concern Troll | Phony sympathy, veiled criticism, manipulative behavior, shaming under the guise of care, perpetuating harmful stereotypes (e.g., fatphobia) 14 |
The “Bratty” Archetypes | Bratty, Bratty Bat | Playful annoyance, mischievousness, demanding attention, perceived immaturity, crossing lines into disrespectful behavior 32 |
III. Subcultures and Niche Interests: Misunderstood and Maligned
Beyond online behaviors, various subcultures and individuals with niche interests frequently find themselves subjected to mild criticism or misunderstanding, often due to their deviation from mainstream norms.
The “Nerds” and “Geeks”: Passionate Pursuits and Social Awkwardness
Historically, the terms “nerd” and “geek” were pejorative, used to denote individuals with intense interests in non-mainstream topics, often coupled with perceived social ineptitude or unconventional appearance. While these terms have seen a significant shift, with “more and more people… comfortable describing themselves with these words” today, the underlying mild disdain persists for certain manifestations.20 These terms generally refer to individuals with “intense interest in certain hobbies” and “deep knowledge” in those areas.20 Stereotypes of socially awkward people include difficulty with eye contact, making small talk, reading social cues, oversharing, and using unusual vocabulary.21 However, it is important to differentiate between superficial “dorkiness” (e.g., clothing, grooming, interests) and “true social awkwardness” (e.g., shyness, underdeveloped conversation skills).22 “Special interests,” particularly common in autistic individuals, are “highly focused interests… more intense than typical interests”.19 These intense interests can lead to “social difficulties if the person does not want to discuss any other topic” or engages in “infodumping,” where they share excessive information about their passion.19
The evolution of “nerd” and “geek” from purely derogatory terms to reclaimed identities suggests a rise in the social capital of knowledge-based interests, particularly in fields like technology and gaming. However, the persistent “deplorable” aspect often stems from the social presentation of individuals rather than the interest itself. The perceived awkwardness, lack of social grace, or unconventional communication styles are often the targets of mild disdain. The distinction between “dorkiness” and “true social awkwardness” highlights that superficial traits are frequently misread as a lack of social competence. This phenomenon reveals a societal shift where certain forms of intellectual intensity are now valued, but social conformity still holds significant sway. The mild disdain for “nerds” or “geeks” can, in many instances, reflect an ableist bias against neurodivergent social communication styles, rather than a genuine critique of their interests or intelligence. In this context, the “deplorable” label is less about the “what” (the hobby) and more about the “how” (the social engagement).
The “Plebs” and “Outsiders”: Perceived Lower Social Standing or Non-Conformity
These labels are used to denote individuals perceived as having lower social standing, lacking refinement, or simply not fitting into a dominant social group’s norms and expectations. The term “plebs,” as indicated in the user query, suggests a judgment rooted in class or social hierarchy. Various other terms for an “annoying person” or someone lacking sophistication, such as “chav,” “bogan,” “yobbo,” “hick,” “rube,” “countryman,” “peasant,” “provincial,” “village idiot,” and “lowbrow,” often carry connotations of lower social standing, a lack of sophistication, or being “uncultivated”.23 Similarly, “blighters” can be a term of “mild reproach” for “a man without good breeding or of lower social” standing.25 Even non-conformity can be viewed negatively, as seen in the distinction between “mavericks” (positive non-conformists) and “contrarians” (who “really likes to be different” and are seen as “neurotic”).24 This indicates that deviation from the norm can be derided if it is perceived as deliberate or socially awkward rather than authentically individualistic.
The application of “deplorable” labels to “plebs” or “outsiders” often manifests as implicit classism, regional bias, or a general discomfort with those who do not adhere to the dominant group’s cultural capital or social norms. The “contrarian” label demonstrates that even intentional non-conformity can be ridiculed if it does not align with a positively perceived archetype, such as the “maverick.” This suggests that the perceived “deplorable” quality is less about objective behavior and more about the subjective perception of deviation from a preferred social standard. Informal labeling, in this sense, serves as a subtle mechanism for maintaining social boundaries and reinforcing perceived social superiority. It reflects how deeply ingrained societal biases related to class, origin, and conformity continue to influence everyday judgments, even when expressed as mild disdain.
The “Stans” and Fandoms: Overenthusiasm and Obsessive Devotion
This category encompasses individuals or groups exhibiting intense, often perceived as excessive or “cringey,” enthusiasm and devotion towards specific celebrities, media franchises, or niche interests. The term “fan” itself is a shortened version of “fanatic,” meaning “marked by excessive enthusiasm and often intense uncritical devotion”.26 “Stans” are considered “excessively avid fans,” with the term originating from a song about an obsessed fan.20 “Otaku,” a Japanese term for “people with obsessive interests,” is derogatory in Japan but commonly used in English to refer to individuals within the anime and manga fandom.26 Fandoms as a whole are “often mocked for being ‘cringey’ or weird” 29, particularly when they are perceived as having “neurodivergent (especially autistic) members” or when their content is made by or for “children” or “women and/or teenage girls”.29 This practice of mocking is often referred to as “cringe culture,” which has been described as a form of “weird group bullying”.28
The “deplorable” label applied to “Stans” and fandoms is not solely a critique of the intensity of their passion. It is significantly amplified by existing societal biases. The perceived “excessiveness” of their enthusiasm becomes “cringey” when it deviates from accepted social norms of emotional expression, particularly when associated with groups already subject to condescension, such as “immature” fangirls or “weird” neurodivergent individuals. The “gendered definition of fangirl” is limiting and often faces “more criticism” compared to male sports fans.27 “Cringe culture” itself, by projecting insecurities and discouraging individuality, acts as a mechanism to enforce conformity.28 The “deplorable” status of “Stans” and fandoms reveals how social norms dictate acceptable levels of passion and expression. The ridicule often serves as a means to enforce conformity and implicitly reinforces existing prejudices, including ableism, ageism, and misogyny, by targeting groups whose enthusiasm is deemed “inappropriate” or “unseemly” by mainstream standards.
IV. Lifestyle and Behavior: The Targets of Mild Critique
Beyond online personas and subcultural affiliations, certain lifestyle choices and behaviors also become targets of mild critique, often masked by a veneer of concern or amusement.
The “Concern Trolls”: Phony Empathy and Veiled Criticism
This group is characterized by their use of a facade of sympathy or concern to deliver judgmental, shaming, or critical messages, often targeting lifestyle choices or personal attributes. “Concern trolls pretend to be sympathetic to a certain point of view which they are actually critical of… with professed ‘concerns'”.14 Their underlying goal is to “sow fear, uncertainty, and doubt” within a group or about an individual.14 A prominent example of this behavior is shaming obese individuals under the guise of “concern for the health of overweight people”.14 This “phony ‘concern’ for fat people’s health” has been argued to be oppressive, with evidence suggesting that fat itself does not necessarily cause disease, and that “fatphobia causes adverse health effects”.31 This type of criticism also frequently aligns with a “harmful bootstraps myth mentality,” implying that individuals can simply choose to overcome their circumstances, and ultimately, “fat-shaming just makes you a jerk”.31 The real-world impact of such judgments is evident in experiences like that of Jessica Turner, who was bullied for her weight and observed a significant change in how people treated her after weight loss, highlighting the societal prejudice against larger individuals.30
The “deplorable” nature of concern trolling lies in its deceptive and manipulative quality. By framing judgment as care, it allows individuals to exert social pressure and enforce norms (e.g., around body size, health behaviors) while appearing virtuous. This subtly undermines individual autonomy and well-being, as the “concern” often stems from prejudice rather than genuine empathy. The impact on victims, as illustrated by personal accounts, clearly demonstrates the harm inflicted. “Concern trolling” reflects a societal tendency to police others’ bodies and choices under the guise of public health or moral superiority. It highlights how informal labels and criticisms can be weaponized in a way that is difficult to challenge, perpetuating harmful stereotypes and reinforcing societal pressures to conform to narrow definitions of “health” or “desirability.”
The “Bratty” Archetypes: Playful Annoyance or Perceived Immaturity
This archetype describes individuals who exhibit a playful, sometimes mischievous or demanding, attitude that can be endearing to some but annoying or immature to others. The “bratty persona” is described as a “playful and slightly annoying attitude, often endearing to fans who appreciate authenticity”.32 This behavior can stem from a “desire for attention” and, while it can be entertaining, it “shouldn’t cross the line into disrespectful behavior”.32 “Brat energy” is also identified as a “playful and flirtatious aspect of relationships,” emphasizing a “mischievous and fun-loving” dynamic that still maintains an “underlying affection”.32
The perception of “bratty” behavior as “deplorable” versus “charming” is highly dependent on context, relationship dynamics, and individual tolerance. What one person finds playful, another might find immature, self-centered, or disrespectful. The “deplorable” aspect arises when the “desire for attention” or playful antics cross a boundary into perceived self-absorption, immaturity, or a disregard for others’ comfort. It represents a judgment on the appropriateness of the social performance within a given setting. This category illustrates the subjective and fluid nature of social acceptability. Behaviors that are tolerated or even celebrated within certain intimate or subcultural contexts can be perceived as “deplorable” in broader social settings, highlighting the unspoken rules governing social interaction and emotional expression.
V. Conclusion: The Fluidity of Labels and the Power of Perception
The exploration of informal “deplorable” groups reveals much about the intricate dynamics of social perception and identity. These labels are not static entities; their meanings and the groups they target are fluid, evolving with cultural shifts and societal anxieties. They function as powerful social constructs that profoundly shape how individuals perceive and interact with others.
The dynamic nature of “deplorability” is evident in how the targets of bias can “shift across time”.5 For instance, terms like “nerd” and “geek” have transformed from derogatory insults to self-described identities, reflecting changing societal values.20 Similarly, the “sigma male” archetype has seen evolving usage, oscillating between aspirational and ironic interpretations.33 The act of labeling, even informally, is not merely descriptive but performative; it actively shapes social reality. As society’s values and norms shift—for example, with greater mainstream acceptance of “geek” culture—so too does what is considered “deplorable.” Furthermore, being labeled, even mildly, can have a reflexive impact on the labeled individual or group. This can manifest as a “self-fulfilling prophecy,” where individuals internalize the label and conform to its negative implications.1 Alternatively, it might lead individuals to “mask” their true interests or behaviors to avoid social censure.19 Understanding this dynamic process is crucial for recognizing how social perceptions are constructed and how they, in turn, influence individual and group behavior. This fluidity implies that what is deemed “deplorable” today might be mainstream or even aspirational tomorrow, underscoring the impermanence of such social judgments.
A significant driver behind the application of the “deplorable” label is often a fundamental misunderstanding of a group’s motivations, complexities, or internal norms. This misunderstanding is particularly amplified by superficial media portrayals or a lack of direct, nuanced interaction. Subcultures, for example, are frequently “misunderstood or mildly criticized” because mainstream media’s representation remains “surface-level and relies on stereotypes”.6 “It’s the external elements that are often misread and focused on,” leading to a superficial interpretation of complex identities.6 Subcultures can even be perceived as “noise” or “semantic disorder” by the mainstream, as their practices disrupt prevailing norms.34 The inherent human tendency to categorize can lead to biases based on “incorrect beliefs” or stereotypes.4 For example, autistic individuals with special interests may be mocked, leading them to “mask” their authentic selves, simply because their interests are viewed as “unusual” or “atypical” by those outside their immediate context.19
The digital age, with its emphasis on visual culture and mediated communication, exacerbates the tendency to reduce complex identities to easily digestible “images” or caricatures. As subcultures and individual expressions increasingly move from public spaces to private or online platforms, the mainstream has fewer opportunities for nuanced understanding, relying instead on simplified portrayals. This “flattening of culture,” where it becomes harder to discern group affiliations, contributes to the ease with which groups are mislabeled and dismissed.6 This “image-ification” of identity creates a significant gap between the perceived (superficial) and the real (complex), fueling the “deplorable” label based on incomplete or distorted information. This suggests that the very mechanisms of modern communication contribute to the ease with which groups are mislabeled and judged. Bridging this gap requires a conscious effort to look beyond surface appearances and engage with the deeper realities of diverse social groups, fostering a more inclusive and understanding social environment.
Ultimately, this taxonomy serves as a reflective mirror, revealing not only who society deems “deplorable” but also its own underlying values, anxieties, and the social boundaries it implicitly constructs. Acknowledging the subjective and often biased nature of these labels is a fundamental step towards fostering greater understanding and inclusivity in the complex tapestry of human interaction.